Monday, July 6, 2009

1984 - 2009

It has been a month I didn’t updates my blog.

First, I have too many things on my mind but didn’t know what to write.

Secondly, I have many things to tell but didn’t know how to start. It’s all about my sister.

She gone for almost 2 weeks and I still miss her very much, I miss her sms, I miss her scolding, I miss her everything. I have a lot of thing to share with her, to tell her, to discuss with her and to fight with her. But all these are too late, when she is around, you don’t care much, you don’t talk much and you keep on fighting. It’s all too late now!! Not matter how hard you cry, how much you miss her, she won’t alive.

My youngest sister first diagnosed with cancer is at the age of 9+ and had her first operation in 1995 follow by chemo than relapse again in 2000 and her last operation was in 2006. Dr mentioned that there are no other options because there are multiple nodules (lumps of cancer cells) which are growing and which cannot be surgically removed anymore.

We tried many methods from Chinese sinseh to Indian Sifu for her to get heal. Whoever told us this sinseh good treated many cancer patients we tried until my sister getting tired of trying all the medicine.

Then she become very ill and admitted to hospital as she was collapse at home. I then rush home with hubby when mom’s called me as her hubby was at outstation that time. The moment I look at her seeing her unconscious look my tears start to drop non-stop. I keep on calling her name, check on her heartbeat.. her breath and she still alive, then I told hubby to quickly sent her to hospital. She was admitted to hospital on 26 May 2009 and never come home since then. Mom and my BIL takes turn to take care of her day and night and I travel to hospital everyday to see her. Day by day passed, she become weaker and weaker, Dr told us to prepare ourselves, get all her friends and relatives to visit her and get her son to accompany her everyday. The most regretted I was, the night before she decided to leave us. I am supposed to stay back at the hospital with my mom, BIL and aunt to take care of her but I did not coz I go home.

She finally passed on peacefully 21 Jun 2009 @ 9am in hospital leaving behind her beloved husband, Allan and son, Brandon. Her wake service was at Xiao En Centre and cremation at Nirvana Memorial Park.

41 comments:

shoppingmum said...

Sorry to hear about your loss. But your sister is a fighter as she had been fighting with cancer for so many years and your family and you had always been there for her.
My deepest condolence to your family.

Mummy Gwen said...

I'm so sorry to hear this. My deepest and sincere condolences to you and your family!

CL said...

so sorry to hear this. She was indeed a fighter.

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

chooi peng said...

so sorry to hear that. My deepest condolence to your family.

Anggie's Journal said...

My deepest condolences to you and your family. ...
She is a real fighter at such young age, no more pain for her now .

stay strong and take k.

miche said...

holding back my tears when reading this...really sorry to hear this. my deepest condolences to you and your family and her family.

is she the one i met in melaka?

Unknown said...

My deepest condolences to you and your family. So sorry to hear this.

Be strong ok?
Take care

Vickylow said...

So sorry to hear your lost. My deepest condolence to you and your family.

Bonnie said...

VEry sorry to hear this, my condolence to you and your family. Stay strong for her okay.. Your sis are now in a better place with God and no pain. Take care!

2ma said...

so sorry to hear about this. my deepest condolence to you & family. i hope everyone will be ok soon... take care!

Cynful Pleasure said...

Sorry to hear about the departure of your beloved sister. My deepest condolences to you and your sister's family. you take care!

coffeesncookies said...

My deepest condolence to you and your family. Losing a family member to cancer is tough, seeing her battle her journey was tough. May she rest in peace and god will watch over her. You take care.

Jess said...

so sorry to hear this news....take care...

*hug*

Mummy Moon said...

So sorry to hear about this. My deepest and sincere condolences to you and your family! You take care

michelle@mybabybay said...

You have my condolences and it is really hard to lose a family member. I am sure she will have a place in your heart.

wen said...

i am so sorry about ur sis. my sincere condolence to u and ur family.

Lemonjude said...

I'm so sorry for the loss of your dearest sis. She indeed stay strong all this while and the greatest part is she got the chance to be a mummy...

My deepest condolences to you and your family. May she rest in peace.

Big Pumpkin said...

*Hugs* Fighting cancer is an exhausting task. I see my Mom go through it everyday. I'm sure your sister is relieved and in a much happier place, and she will always be looking down on her loved ones.

Sasha Tan said...

My condolences to you and your family. Take care . *hugs*

Serene said...

So sorry to hear this. My deepest concolence to you and your family. Stay strong and take care, ok.

Princess Geraldine's mummy said...

I'm so sorry to hear this...my deepest condolence to you and your family...and its really really hard to lose a very close family member...take care, my friend!

Mumsgather said...

I'm sorry for your loss. Be strong.

LHS said...

so sorry to hear that, my deepest condolences to you and your family.

Family First said...

My sincere and deepest condolences to you and your family. Take care of yourself too.

slavemom said...

I'm so sorry for ur loss. My deepest condolences to u and ur family.

Cindy said...

My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Unknown said...

My deepest condolences to you and your family. She is so tough to fight for it many years.

mommy to chumsy said...

I am so sorry to hear this. My deepest condolence to you and your family.

Everyday Healy said...

Your experience reminds me of the moment I lost my grandpa, who is so close and like a father to me.

Time can heal though. From not willing to accept they have leave us to all we can do is live more happily for them. And, knowing that they never leave us cause they will always be in our memory. Also, believing they are watching us somewhere near.

wenn said...

hi, my condolence..take care.

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laundryamah said...

I read about this in Facebook but didnt know who..so blurrr..

Cancer too took away my dad....so I know how it's like, my condolences to you & family

NomadicMom said...

Deepest Condolences to your loss.

sting said...

apologies for being so late to offer my deepest condolences... I fully understood what you mean as my parents succumbed to cancer too... may your sister rest in peace...

Alice Law said...

I'm sorry to hear about your lost, deepest condolences my friend...

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