True Color

As she knows that she is leaving soon in July but in actual fact is in May, she start to show her true face / f***king face at my in-laws. My turn not yet, I think soon. She also telling my MIL lots of story which I just got to know it yesterday when my MIL told me.

First Incident
Yesterday, she yelled at my FIL coz my FIL said she do things now got head no tail (yau tau mou mei) and said this to my FIL, “Complain la… complain la… complain pada mem, saya tak takut sekarang, saya kerja sampai bulan tujuh saja.”

Second Incident
Yesterday, my MIL did not buy breakfast for her coz there is breads where my in-law bought from Pasar Malam, so MIL ask her to eat bread only and later in the afternoon only will cook. Then she shows her face at MIL and do not want to take the bread and wait till afternoon that MIL fried rice only she eat.

She asked my MIL to buy her gold bracelet coz she have been working so hard with MIL. Then asked my SIL to give her clothes that my SIL can’t wear. She even wants to ask from my sister to give her all the baby clothes that my nephew can’t wear anymore. She tells in-law that she has lots and lots of thing she wants to buy before leaving here.

I’m really shock when I heard this thru MIL yesterday. I have not questioned her about all these and I pretend I don’t know and see what is her next step. At first I was thinking to inform her earlier so she can prepare, then buy her new luggage bag, buy her some new clothes for her to bring back and give extra bonus.

Now, I will slash all these, if I want to be crueler, just ask her to bring back what she brought here. That it!!!

No more phone calls

Since Monday I did not received any calls from Sebastian classmate. Last week alone, they call each other several times a day and I really don’t know what is the chatting. So, I told Sebastian not to call so frequently as you see each other everyday in school except for weekend unless you have something urgent to tell her so does she.

Last night, I asked Sebastian did he call his friend? Or did your friend call you? He said no, and I asked why? He said that I say cannot call many times so he did not make any call. Not that I do not want them to chat on the phone but not as five or six times a day, so I try to explain to him. He agreed with me and he told his classmate too not to call so frequent.

Am I too mean? Do you allow your kids to make call and chat few times a day

Surprise call

Today I received a surprise call……………………………….

From who??????????

It’s from………………………………………………………….
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Sebastian’s classmate……….. and it’s a GIRL o.O

When I pick up the called I thought who’s kid playing with the mobile phone, as at that time the line is not clear, then she called second time. She said she want to speak to Sebastian and I silence for a second, then I told her that Sebastian is at home and I’m working so I can’t pass your call to him. Then she asked me to get Sebastian to return her call. o.O

Then I called home and asked Sebastian, he told me is his classmate and he gave my no. to her as she requested it. O.O

Later, I called home again and wanted to remind Sebastian to return her call but he slept already. So, I told MIL about it and to my surprise again, Sebastian already called her. He passed a piece of paper with the phone no. written on it to MIL and asked MIL to call his girlfriend and they chat for a while. O.O

Goshhhhh!!! He is only 5 years old and already had his classmate cum girlfriend called.

My maid is leaving soon............

My maid is leaving soon, her last working day is May 18, but I have yet to inform her and book her air ticket. She doesn’t know that she is leaving us early as she thought her last working day is in July. Not that I want to sent her off earlier as her passport expired in June so her last working day have to be one month before her expiry date of her passport. This is my first maid and she has been working with us for three years, she is very young age 20 only, so you can imagine that when she was first here, she only aged 17. So far, I don’t have any major problem with her, all I want from her is to keep my house clean, do all the housework without me asking her to do so and follow my timetable that I given her when she first stepped into my house. Other then that I just close one eye if the matter is a minor one.

So, will I cope without maid around? I really don’t know.

Last time without maid I still managed to take care of Sebastian and housework but now, after three years of relaxing and honeymoon years without doing anything at home, I really don’t know I still can cope with housework and kids. Now to get new maid is really expensive it cost around RM7k++ where I only spend RM5k+ three years ago. Everything raises even the maid salary, now paying at RM500 – RM550 per month. (Pssstt…. I did not raise my maid salary from day one she work with me, the reason I gave her is she did her job on satisfactory level only and does not exceeds expectations level.)

At the moment, I won’t get any new maid but will get the temporary maid to clean our house once/twice a week until if I really cannot cope then only I will get in permanent maid. I hope that I can do all the housework by myself and at the same time take care of Sebastian and Sidney. *cross finger*

Like Mummy..... Like Daughter

Was doing my own pedicure yesterday night, Sidney running towards me and looking at what am I doing. So, I asked Sidney whether she want to look pretty or not, she nodded. Then I asked her to sit still and let me coating her toenails. After finish coating, she walk around and show her daddy, brother and kakak her toenails.

Lousy Cook

Last few days I was on leave as MIL went for holidays, she only backs on coming Thursday. Now is hubby turns to on leave and takes care of the kids. For the last few days with the kids at home was a tiring day for me. Although I’m not working but I have to wake up early too coz need to send Sebastian to kindy then went to do some marketing, and this really give me headache. Dunno what to buy... dunno what shall I cook. I’ve been rounding and rounding and rounding the market to see what I want to buy for cooking…. And I’m not a great cook so I have to buy something that is easy for me. Luckily I only cooked for three days ie. Thursday, Friday and Monday and these three days already make me go haywire.

Ehh… wanna ask ya… how you the full time mummy cook ya… cook everyday?

So, I told hubby, now your turn to take care of the kids and your turn to do some marketing and cook for me. He said he will just pay and bring us out for dinner instead... LOL!!