I found blood stain...........

I finally send my TAI KAR CHEY (Big Sister) back to agent as I really can’t take it anymore. I’m trying to close one eye on her work she does, the black face she shown me, the ‘sigh’ sound I heard every time I asked her to do work and many more.

Today she sounded unsatisfactory when my MIL asked her to clean the floor where my kids dirty it when they eat and told MIL that she will clean it when she mop the floor. Then she talk to MIL at very high tone saying that she does not want to work anymore, so MIL called me and told me what happened. Immediately I called agent and him to bring her back else I do not know what will happen to her when I back home. Coz I cannot tahan anymore.

Later when I back in-law house I checked on her small bag that she brought to in-law house for shower and I found my house key, this house key was kept at in-law house. I really don’t know how long she kept this house key, did she pass to anyone to duplicate it or she is planning to runaway from in-law house and back to my house to get her stuff.

When I back home I quickly when to her room and dig her stuff, I can’t any of the thing that I lost which is money and watches. But I found something... blood stain in her diary and wrote “I LOVE YOU” and “LAS (her name) LOVE WWN (I think is her bf)” with her blood. Geli or not…. I can’t imagine further and I told hubby that we are lucky we are still alive here. Don’t whether she did put any of her blood in our drinking water or whatever la. Immediately I change all the drinking water, throw away the opened milk powder, throw away the knife (dunno whether she got use our knife to get the blood) and also scissors. Now, I remember why her hand and finger always on plaster. Yucckkkk!!! Don’t want to think further make me even sick.

I am so… so… so… relieve now, coz she is not here anymore, I want to live happily ever after, will update the pix of her blood stain tomorrow.

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I'm back in one piece....

Wowwww…. It’s almost a month I did not touch my blog. I’ve been thinking whether I should stop blogging since my blogging bugs had gone missing, but I really em sey tak to leave my blogging world. So, decided to continue.

On CNY
What happened during CNY? Beside go visit relatives, giving and collecting angpaos, we went to KK for holiday. This is the first time we did not going back to Penang, so lesser angpao for this year, LOL!!

We stayed at Le Meridien at KK, besides shopping we went to visit Manukan Island and Wildlife Park only. Very relaxing trip and the kids enjoyed it so much.

On Valentine’s Day
We went out for simple dining nearby our housing area. It’s Thai’s food. Didn’t receive any flower or gift from hubby so do hubby, economy no good ma… so cut cost lor.. hehehe

On last weekend
We went to Sunway Lagoon together with mum, sis, BIL, SIL and the kids. The voucher I bought is going to expired this week, so quickly make a trip there. We spent almost a day at Sunway Lagoon from 10am till 5.30pm. Really worth it hor!! The kids played till don’t want to go home and all got tanned included me which every time I went hiding when the sun found me.

On Maid
Again??? Ya… again!!! This maid really a problematic maid, I should have send her off earlier but now too late. Her permit is going to expired this Sept so am not going to renew her again. She used hubby phone to call her boyfriend, her sister and dunno who else in Indonesia and the bill come to 1.2k.

Let me explain further, hubby phone normally put at TV cabinet and charging overnight without switch it off. This has been practice since we moved into this lil’ nest. It never happens to first maid. She is really smart and pretend to be dumb dumb like what Chinnee said. She know how to use phone and know how to call to Indonesia, all the calls she made is from 5am – 7am before we wake up. Each day at least 10 calls, each call lasted 20mins. Can you imagine!!! The first call she made was on 18 Oct, one month after she arrived at our lil’ nest. She went on making calls for the month of Nov, Dec and Jan. Feb statement is not here yet, so I presume her still making calls in Feb (we just found out last two weeks). Funny rite, how come hubby did not realize it coz the phone billed to company, thus we didn’t know about it until hubby’s account person called hubby and questioned him. LOL!! And his company so generous to pay the phone bill which each month cost around 600bucks!! If we knew early, I would have sack her. So, immediately I called my agent and told him about it. He came over on Saturday, and what he did before asking her question, he slapped her twice and she burst out. The agent immediate pulled her out while she is cleaning my room and threatens her to bring her to police station. So, agent told me that he will bring her back to his office and question cum counseling her. When she came back, she apologies to us and told us she won’t make mistake again. Since then, her soul is back to her, no more dreaming AT THE MOMENT. Till today, she did her work well at least a bit better then previous. Minus off the phone bill she owes us, she goes home with less than 2k. Worth it??

Black Magic

When I was typing this, my stupid dumb dumb maid come to me and tell me something …………………………

She come and apologies to me on all the mistakes she done, ok before I continue the juicy story, let me briefly tell about my stupid dumb dumb maid

Keep clothes for two or three days before folding and ironing, dunno keep it for what
Folds clothes like shit which I taught her many times already
Iron clothes like never been iron and I taught her that too, but still the same
Put my clothes into hubby rack and hubby into mine, until now she still dunno how to differentiate it
Mixed up all the pyjamas for Sidney n Sebastian, which I told her many times that to be keep in as paired
Very forgetful, tell her many times to check this and that what to bring when we go out but every time sure will forget one thing
Told her many times before go to sleep, make sure living room is clear not toys lying around but….. still the same
Reminded her when see people around, greet people don’t stand there like kayu, and it’s still the same
When ask her to look after the kids, she really ‘LOOK’ at the kids, ya… she is looking, staring at the kids only *slap head*
And many more to list down which I lazy to crack my head

Ok, let’s continue my juicy story, oppss ya, one more thing, she like to sing, she will singing when she do her work and talking to herself too… scary or not… ok ok let’s continue…

Her apologies to me and tell me that I can send her back to agent if I still upset with her work. So, I told her since you know that you make me upset all the times, then buck up your work and do it properly. Do repeat the mistake. Then she told me the reason behind why she always forget this forget that and dreaming is she kena ‘ilmu hitam’ (black magic). This ‘teman’ of her (I guess is boyfriend) do black magic to her and make her think of him only that is why she always forgetful and ask my help to help her to get rid of this black magic. She told me a lot of thing which I really don’t understand her slang therefore I stare blankly at her and told her that I don’t know all these things and I will call agent tomorrow and get it settle. She told me that she really wish to work with me just that her mind can’t stop thinking.

I don’t know whether her story is true but for sure is just her reason. Now, I really don’t know want to laugh at her story or to cry and I’m so sick and tired of these. Really want to kick her off.

Last Weekend

Since my maid is here, although she is slow with her work but I got plenty of time with kids and hubby, furthermore, lesser yelling now, become more lovely mother and wife LOL!!

So, last weekend I prepared breakfast for kids and hubby, well for the kids one it’s a bit disappointed coz the eggs I’m using too small for the mould so it’s very deformed as well as the sausages is too huge so when I cut it, it’s like really out of shape. Well the kids like it so much and asked me to prepare again next time.

After the breakfast, they had Ribena ice pops which they waiting eagerly since Friday night. Then they had it again on Sunday which was mango flavour which I fresh squeeze from the mango I bought from supermarket.

They are looking forward for coming weekend to see what surprises I give them again LOL!

Her 5th Day

Today is her 5th day with us and has a word with her. She is #3 among 5 siblings, the oldest aged 24 and youngest 13. She claims she is 21yrs old but gods know how old she is. To me she looks younger than that.

She still very slow with her works and sometimes very forgetful too, for example last night she wash our clothes then go ironing by the time finish almost 11pm plus and she go straight to sleep. So, before I go to sleep I went to check out her work and found out the clothes, which already washed still in washing machine. This morning I asked her why she did not hang the clothes, she told me forgot. Ok, never mind, still new, give her another chance.

Today, I drafted out the timetable for her and get it translated in bahasa Indonesia to make sure she understands. Gave her one-month to settle down everything and hopefully she would able to catch up all the housework by then without telling me forget this forget that.

Maid is HERE!!!!

From today onwards, I will my legs shaking at home and pointing at what I want and ask the maid to get it for me, then you will see my buttock growing bigger and bigger.. LOL!!!

I no longer needs to sweep floor, mopping floor, washing toilet bowls, washing clothes, hanging clothes, save my $$ sending clothes to dobby for ironing and lots and lots more which I lost count.

She spoke very soft until I don’t know what she trying to tell me and need to ask her to repeat it many times. The first thing she do when she arrived at my home is folding clothes, which I’ve not touch for few days, almost reach Mount KK.

Both my kids very excited seeing her kakak and keep on calling kakak non-stop *pening kepala*. Sidney was asking my why our kakak look different after coming back from Indonesia, so, I told her that this is a new kakak and she happily accepted her.

I have not given her the schedule which she needs to follow as I want to briefed her first to make sure she understand what is her job scope. I repeated many times and show her what to do and how to do. Hope she really understand what I trying to tell her.

Today just a first day, there is more to come and hope that is a good one.

My new maid is coming soon........

Got good news from my agent, my new maid is coming on 9 Sep and I’m so excited about it but on the other hand I’m worry too.

• I’m worrying the new maid ~ compare to the last one better or worst
• I’m worrying the new maid ~ disobey my instructions
• I’m worrying the new maid ~ flirting around as she only 21 yrs old (my last maid also a young maid)
• I’m worrying the new maid ~ beating my kids
• I’m worrying the new maid ~ a lazy maid
• I’m worrying the new maid ~ telling lie
• I’m worrying the new maid ~ unhygienic
  

This is my second time getting maid, first one was with us for 3yrs. Now I’m back to 3yrs ago with so many questions popping out in my mind. Maybe listen to too much complaint about the maid recently around me and this make me worry. I’ve even drafted the new schedule for the new maid to follow.

Heard from some of my friend they have to wait for few months to get new maid some even can’t give exact date coz now Indon maid is going to HK, Taiwan, Singapore and even Middle East as they pay higher compared here. But I’m lucky that I’m don’t have to wait long to get the new maid, is less than two months.

Pray that this maid won’t give us so many problems.

I'M OFFICIALLY A MAID NOW!

Last Friday nite, I called her few times, she did not pick up my calls and she even switched off the phone. Then the next morning I tried again, and the phone totally off can’t even get thru. After that by noon when the flight departs from her kampong, I called up the airlines to check whether she did on board and NO… this passenger did not check-in, so I know the answer that she won’t be back.

After that I called up my agent to inform him that my maid did not turn up which she supposed to be and my agent told me that he will inform his agent in Indonesia to call my maid to reconfirm that she won’t be back so I can make a report to cancel her work permit… etc.

At the first place, if she knows that she won’t want to continue, why the heck she agreed to continue. If she told me she do not want to continue then she can have all her salary bank in to her. Such a stupid maid, rather lose the balance of her salary with me.

So, now I’m officially a maid to my beloved family.

7 Days without Maid

It’s has been one week since my maid left to her kampong. Everything still under control, only thing that I’m yet to get it done is the ironing. I really hate ironing. I only iron half of our working cloths; hopefully tomorrow will get it done.

Hubby asked me whether I can manage if our maid did not come back on 19 Jul. I told hubby I can if our maid really did not turn up next Saturday and I told hubby not to worry about me, what he need to worry is her mum.

The more house work I do, the fastest I get to slim down rite… LOL!!!

Call from maid

I reminded my maid to call me once she reaches her kampong. I waited the whole Saturday she did not call me and only call me on Sunday early in the morning. She told me the flight delays till 3.30pm only depart and she reached her kampong midnight.

Later in the afternoon I got two-missed call from her, the she called again in the evening. I pick up the call and she asked me the money that I TT to her when she will receive. So, I told her for the next two or three days depending on the bank efficiency. She asks whether I can send the balance of the money, which still with me coz her mom, owe someone 18mil IDR, I said NO.

I had a feeling that she do not want to come back so she want me to send back all the money so she give me all sort of reason. I told her no way and I hang up to the phone. So, now whether she wants to come back or not, I don’t care, I spent almost 2k to renew her passport and work permit and I’m not that stupid to send all the money back to her.

Whoever die also not my problem, BIG LIAR!!!

A Hectic Saturday

Morning
Wake up early in the morning to prepare to send maid to airport and at the same time received sms saying flight retime from 10.55am to 2.55pm. Haiz… I have to reschedule my itinerary becoz of this stupid airline retime their flight. Instead of me n hubby going, I have to get in-law n the kiddos along, since Sebastian’s Sports Day is at 2pm. Reached airport went to check-in counter and her luggage was overweight by 11kg and has to pay RM165. So she paid for it then I went to money changer to get some IDR for her as a pocket money. Sidney was like koala bear stick to the maid and do not want to let go her. When her kakak went into the immigration, she cried so loud and everyone was looking at us as if I kidnap the little girl. So embarrassing…

Afternoon
So, quickly get out from LCCT and proceed to Bukit Jalil. We have to reach there by 1pm but with the jammed at Sg Besi we reached around 1.30pm. And their activities finished by 4pm then quickly rush home and take a rest before continue with another event.

Evening
Rush to visit my buddy as she just gave birth to baby boy but she was discharge from the hospital without informing me… o.O then from Bangsar we rush to Sri Petaling to attend hubby’s friend full moon party. We reached there around 8,30pm and all the food almost finished. Hubby managed to get a little bit of mee hoon, little bit of fried rice and few sticks of stay for four of us. The rest gone… and drinks also habis except for beer. O.O
Luckily I’m not that hungry at that time, so I told hubby that he stay at his friend’s full moon party and I’m going to my buddy house to see her baby.

Then, on the way back to my home sweet home. we tar pau supper and have a nice meals at home.

NO Maid for two weeks

As requested by ‘them’, hubby had renewed the working permit for ‘their’ maid. This maid will continue to work with ‘them’ or me for next two years. So, tomorrow our maid will flying back to her kampong for two weeks.

I’ve done all the checking of her stuff in her BIG LUGGAGE that she will be bringing home. I dig out the entire stuff in her bag including her bra n panty that she nicely folds and check every single clothes from top to bottom and every single part of her clothes in her bag. Nothing has been found. Now, the bag has been locked by me and the key will only give to her tomorrow. And her luggage is really really heavy… I think is much heavier than her. LOL!!

I’ve also told her that her luggage is overweight and she has to pay the extra charges. If not she think that I will be paying for her.

So, from tomorrow onwards I’m going to do the entire house cleaning from sweeping to mopping, washing to ironing and etc… etc.. etc.. Hubby reminded me to check with the maid on all the stuff she keep so I won’t be like looking up and down for the thing that we need to use later when she is not here. Haizz… as if I stayed in BIG BUNGALOW house that I can’t even find all the stuff that she kept.

True Color

As she knows that she is leaving soon in July but in actual fact is in May, she start to show her true face / f***king face at my in-laws. My turn not yet, I think soon. She also telling my MIL lots of story which I just got to know it yesterday when my MIL told me.

First Incident
Yesterday, she yelled at my FIL coz my FIL said she do things now got head no tail (yau tau mou mei) and said this to my FIL, “Complain la… complain la… complain pada mem, saya tak takut sekarang, saya kerja sampai bulan tujuh saja.”

Second Incident
Yesterday, my MIL did not buy breakfast for her coz there is breads where my in-law bought from Pasar Malam, so MIL ask her to eat bread only and later in the afternoon only will cook. Then she shows her face at MIL and do not want to take the bread and wait till afternoon that MIL fried rice only she eat.

She asked my MIL to buy her gold bracelet coz she have been working so hard with MIL. Then asked my SIL to give her clothes that my SIL can’t wear. She even wants to ask from my sister to give her all the baby clothes that my nephew can’t wear anymore. She tells in-law that she has lots and lots of thing she wants to buy before leaving here.

I’m really shock when I heard this thru MIL yesterday. I have not questioned her about all these and I pretend I don’t know and see what is her next step. At first I was thinking to inform her earlier so she can prepare, then buy her new luggage bag, buy her some new clothes for her to bring back and give extra bonus.

Now, I will slash all these, if I want to be crueler, just ask her to bring back what she brought here. That it!!!

My maid is leaving soon............

My maid is leaving soon, her last working day is May 18, but I have yet to inform her and book her air ticket. She doesn’t know that she is leaving us early as she thought her last working day is in July. Not that I want to sent her off earlier as her passport expired in June so her last working day have to be one month before her expiry date of her passport. This is my first maid and she has been working with us for three years, she is very young age 20 only, so you can imagine that when she was first here, she only aged 17. So far, I don’t have any major problem with her, all I want from her is to keep my house clean, do all the housework without me asking her to do so and follow my timetable that I given her when she first stepped into my house. Other then that I just close one eye if the matter is a minor one.

So, will I cope without maid around? I really don’t know.

Last time without maid I still managed to take care of Sebastian and housework but now, after three years of relaxing and honeymoon years without doing anything at home, I really don’t know I still can cope with housework and kids. Now to get new maid is really expensive it cost around RM7k++ where I only spend RM5k+ three years ago. Everything raises even the maid salary, now paying at RM500 – RM550 per month. (Pssstt…. I did not raise my maid salary from day one she work with me, the reason I gave her is she did her job on satisfactory level only and does not exceeds expectations level.)

At the moment, I won’t get any new maid but will get the temporary maid to clean our house once/twice a week until if I really cannot cope then only I will get in permanent maid. I hope that I can do all the housework by myself and at the same time take care of Sebastian and Sidney. *cross finger*

3hrs Without Maid

Every Saturday, I will drive Sebastian to his Taekwando class but last Saturday a little bit unusual. Hubby had appointment wanted me to drop him at his office, so do not want to leave Sidney alone with the maid, I brought Sidney along and leave the maid at home doing her housework.

Firstly, I dropped Sebastian at his Taekwando class, and then dropped hubby at is workplace. After that I go “tar pau” and carry Sidney along…. phew really hectic (to be honest, I hardly carry both of them and it’s less than 10mins). Then, I put Sidney on the car seat (she hardly seated on car seat, normally she seated on the maid’s lap), she struggled do not want to sit on car seat and yelling. I did not bother her and headed to Sebastian kindy to pick him up, while on the way, Sidney still crying and screaming, like I’m kidnapping her. Finally, reached Sebastian kindy and she stopped crying now she want to sit together with Sebastian at back seat. So, both of them at back seat and put them on safety belt. Sidney no more struggling and sit happily with Sebastian at the back seat, then I proceed to Tesco to buy some stuff. In Tesco, I put both of them in the trolley and started to shop for groceries, everything went very smoothly until we get into the car. Sidney do not want to put on safety belt, she wanted to sit freely, without wasting time, I carry her and put her on car seat. Again, she struggled and start screaming and crying all the way back home.

This is the very first time I brought both of them out without hubby ‘n maid and I told myself, this is the last time I’ll do this. I really salute those mummies that can handle their kids without maid